Together things by Michelle Vasiliu
Illus. by Gwynneth Jones. EK Books, 2020. ISBN: 9781925820294.
32pp., hbk.
The little girl loved to do things with her dad - special things
like taming wild animals, flying high in the sky and climbing rocky
mountains. But now that's all changed because her dad is sick with
an illness that no one except a special doctor can see. And he might
even have to go to hospital to get better. However, her mother is
wise and she knows and explains how there are different things that
the girl and her dad can do together while he gets better, maybe not
as exciting as sailing stormy seas or drinking tea with the Queen,
but just as important so their love stays strong.
This is a story that will resonate with many of our students as one
in five adults experiences depression in their lifetime, so many
will understand and empathise. Together things helps young
children to understand that while it is okay for them to feel mad
or sad about this, sometimes they must do different things together
while their parent focuses on their mental health and getting
better.
Just as we are now paying attention to the mental health of our
students, so too must we help them understand that they are not
alone if there is such illness in their family and that they are not
responsible for it. Sharing this story and talking about how common
the issue is will help those kids seeing it firsthand realise that
they are not alone and that there are many ways to show and share
love.
Barbara Braxton