To stir with love by Kate Mildenhall and Jess Racklyeft

A loving, heartwarming story of a day at Grandma’s, a day spent cooking together and so preserving generations of women’s work, is combined with the idea of change, as Grandma shows signs of memory loss, and her granddaughter sees herself as having family memories passed on to her. Stirring with love is a homage to older generations keeping memories alive and passing them on to younger generations.

The granddaughter goes to Grandma’s house, something she regularly does. Grandma might not be skilled at the computer or sending emails, but the girl can help her with those. Grandma has a host of recipes passed on to her by her grandmother and grandmothers before, keeping aspects of their culture alive. She loves getting all her old implements out to make the cake, one she makes for her neighbours and her family. They get the ingredients together, but Grandma stops and has a little lapse of memory. But the girl is there to support her. They combine the ingredients in the bowl and stir three times before putting it into the oven. They drink a whole pot of tea in the garden waiting for the cake to cook. When it does, it is left to cool and then iced. All the while, Grandma is passing on not only the recipes, but hints about how to put the cake together, hints that are passed on from one person to another, usually spread by word of mouth, rather than written within the recipe.

The refrain, My little and Grandma’s old hand, wrinkled and sure, is used several times in the story, again underlining the link between generations.

The wonderful watercolour illustrations sweep across every page, showing a Grandma’s garden with fruit trees, vegetable garden, and lots of different colours. Jess paints her garden with style, allowing readers to check out the many details included. I had a lovely time looking at the various older pieces of equipment used in Grandma’s kitchen: a whisk, flour sifter, hand beater, aprons, oven mitts, milk jug, tea pot etc., and was struck by the pictures on the wall, and the wonderful endpapers, which will entice young eyes to see how much they can see that reminds them of their Grandma’s house. Each of these will show readers how things have changed, and reinforce the idea of ageing and change, of generations, of support between generations.

Themes: Ageing, Generations, Recipes, Cooking, Family.

Fran Knight