The teenage guide to friends by Nicola Morgan
Walker Books, 2017. ISBN 9781406369779
(Age: 12-15) Recommended. Subjects: Friendship, Teenage life,
Cyber-bullying, Family relationships. Nicola Morgan is an
internationally recognised author of teenage health and wellbeing
books including Blame My Brain: The Amazing Teenage Brain
Revealed and The Teenage Guide to Stress. In The
Teenage Guide to Friends, she explores the topic of
friendships, looking at making friends, establishing healthy
relationships and online experiences. Sections on personality types,
family position and being empathetic are written in a practical,
relatable format. Morgan emphasizes the value of having a trusted
adult to share with, to provide support and guidance.
This book is divided into four sections: What are Friends; Making
and Managing Friendships; Empathy and Behaviour and Personality. She
explores the thousands of years of human evolution, the development
of the human brain and 'the ability to think rationally and use self
control.' Each section includes an introduction, questions and
responses, signs to look out for and things to think about. Online
friendships, cyber-bullying, the influences of social media are
discussed with guidelines for handling online cruelty, looking ahead
to choices made as a teenager and the consequences for adulthood.
Negative and positive behaviours, personality traits, keeping
friendships strong, dealing with 'frenemies' are important topics
for teenagers to understand.
Teenagers and preteens can use the comprehensive index and explore
just the section that interests them, their area of concern or
issues that they are dealing with. This reference book is a useful
tool for classroom and home teachers, as well as health
professionals. Quizzes and a resource section are included as well.
Rhyllis Bignell