Stitches and stuffing by Carrie Gallasch and Sara Acton
Little Hare, 2017. ISBN 9781760127787
Wherever Adeline went, so did Bunnybear. They had been together
since forever, never apart. He was soft and cuddly, his ears and
legs wibbling and wobbling and he flipped and flopped along. He even
had his own seat at the table for morning milk and biscuits with
Nanna. Bunnybear was her best friend and she didn't feel right
without him. Until one day, Bunnybear accidentally got left at the
beach. Caught in a tug-of-war between a curious seagull and
Adeline's puppy, poor Bunnybear was destroyed and Adeline was
distraught. That night there was a Bunnybear-shaped empty space in
her bed and she felt very alone.
Next day Nanna sat in her knitting chair and made a new Bunnybear
for Adeline. But this one wasn't the same. It was too stiff and
straight and no matter how Adeline squished and squashed him, he
felt like a stranger. And so he sat on the shelf, hard and still
like a statue. But then, one day Nanna had to go away for a while
and with no milk and biscuits for morning tea, and no sitting in the
knitting chair with her, the days became long and quiet. And then
Adeline remembered . . .
This is a soft and gentle story, illustrated with the soft and
gentle palette and the soft and gentle lines of watercolours, that
will remind all readers, young and not-so of their favourite
take-along-everywhere toy of their childhood. Everyone has a
Bunnybear in their story, that one toy that we felt lost without
regardless of whether it was shabby or pristine. In fact, shabby was
better because it showed how loved it was but despite that, there is
always room for change and sometimes when it is thrust upon us we
need to embrace it. This softness is not just in the storyline but
also in the rhythm of the story - long sentences that spread out
over vignettes and pages as life continues on its merry way but
changing to shorter, more abrupt statements when the worst happens
and then gradually getting longer and more rhythmic as life takes on
a new pattern. The whole wraps around the child like a hug,
reassuring them that things will work out even if they are
different.
Sometimes when little ones go to big school there is a suggestion
that it is time to leave their preschool lives behind, including
their beloved toys that have been with them since birth. And yet
with this huge change in their lives they are left without the
companionship of their most trusted and comforting friend and ally.
We have to remember we can still count in months the time these
little ones have been in the world and they need and deserve all the
support they can get. The astute teacher will acknowledge that these
are more than just a collection of stitches and stuffing, that they
are imbued with love, safety and security and perhaps having a
special shelf so the special toys can come to school too with the
child deciding when they want to wean themselves. Meanwhile the
teacher librarian can encourage them to read to their special toy in
school and at night and might even provide a collection of teddies
for those who just need an extra hug or two. It worked for me!
Barbara Braxton