Picture me gone by Meg Rosof
Penguin, 2013. ISBN 9780141344034.
(Age: 14+) Highly recommended. Mila goes with her father Gil,
searching for his best friend, Matthew, whom he hasn't seen for
years and who has disappeared. Together they travel to Matthew's
remote cabin, with observant Mila taking note of small details and
thinking through some of the anomalies of Matthew's disappearance.
How can someone leave their wife, small son and sad dog without a
word and why has he disappeared?
This is a clever and intelligent expose of the way that adults keep
secrets from their children and from each other and how children
have the ability to unravel what is going on. Mila is intrigued with
the puzzle of Matthew's life and gradually comes to understand his
motives and his guilt. Watchful for what is happening around her,
she learns about sorrow and depression, about neglected children and
ways of coping. She also learns about trust and betrayal.
This is not a typical book for adolescents. There are no vampires or
angels here, but a strong family relationship between Mila and her
parents that contrasts with the disintegration that Matthew's
actions cause for his family. It looks squarely at marital
infidelity, single parent family and depression that might cause
suicide. Told through the eyes of a twelve year old, step by step
old secrets are revealed and the conclusion is ambiguous. Truly
adults do not have all the answers and parents keep secrets from
their children.
This beautifully written and intelligent book from an award winning
author will appeal to thoughtful, mature readers. A second reading
would be fruitful.
Pat Pledger