Headstrong daughters by Nadia Jamal
Allen and Unwin, 2018. ISBN 9781760293314
(Age: 16+) Highly recommended. Non-fiction. 'An absolutely
fascinating and illuminating read' is how Annabel Crabb describes
this book which is like a next chapter to follow Amal Awad's Beyond
veiled cliches. That book provided insight into the real lives of
Arab women in the Middle East. Jamal's book provides insight into
the lives and concerns of the new generation of Muslim women in
Australia. They include young working women, single and married,
some mothers, women from a variety of cultural backgrounds including
Lebanon, Iraq, Bangladesh and Somalia. Jamal
explains that some of their thoughts and attitudes draw on 'cultural
traditions and interpretations rather than actual religious
teachings'. For readers unfamiliar with the teachings of Islam it is
an important distinction. It provides context for the variations in
customs and concerns of the women she introduces to us. Yet all of
them seem to be determined to live with integrity within their
beliefs. The women's stories provide us with insight into Muslim
practices such as choosing to wear the hijab, making the hajj
pilgrimage, marriage arrangements, divorce settlement, and funeral
practices, but also describes their thoughts about modern issues
such as dating, contraception, IVF treatment, abortion, adoption and
foster care. In grappling with these issues, they seek always to be
true to themselves, their families and their faith.
The stories reveal different viewpoints, and different paths, but
the thing they have in common is their desire to honour the
teachings of Islam. Some of the stories may surprise readers who
have absorbed the common media stereotypes of Muslim women. These
women are strong and independent, in the decisions they make and in
their determination to honour the moral and ethical teachings of
their religion. And the issues they grapple with are common to young
women of all backgrounds. For that reason, this book is recommended
for young adults regardless of their background; the principles of
honesty, compassion and integrity applied to modern issues are of
relevance to all.
Helen Eddy