Fighting words by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
Text Publishing, 2020. ISBN: 9781922330628.
(Ages: 14+ / Young Adult). Highly recommended. "Sometimes you've got a
story you need to find the courage to tell." Based on author
Bradley's personal experience Fighting words deals with
child sexual abuse yet is so much more than that. It is about what
comes after, and about survival. By the time the story begins the
abuse is in the past and is mostly hinted at and not explicitly
spelled out, except for on one page (pg. 130). Two sisters, 12 year
old Della and 16 year old sister Suki are involved and must deal
with all the emotions and damage from what has occurred. It is about
getting help and making plans and being safe and finding people to
trust. And it is about consent, about love and about the unshakeable
bond between sisters.
The girls have fled their home and been taken into foster care.
Della, who tells the story, has a tough outer shell and doesn't
trust or need anyone but her sister. She also swears a lot (in the
book actual swear words are replaced with the word 'snow').
Suki has always been the strong one, but she suddenly starts
screaming in her sleep and becomes distant.
When Della starts at a new school she encounters a bully but also a
chance to make friends. Her therapist gives her the tools to handle
the bully by making a strong statement about consent and about
adults needing to believe children when they share problems. For
Della the hardest part of telling her story now is realising how
much of it she didn't know about at the time. And she bravely
decides it's her turn to be the strong one and to speak out about
the terrible things that Suki endured.
This is the first young adult novel for Kimberly Brubaker Bradley.
The story has some lows (including a suicide attempt) but maintains
a strong thread of hope, humour and positivity. There are 14
discussion points in the back of the book which are wonderful ways
to get teenagers talking about issues such as family, sacrifices,
problem solving, power imbalances, consent, decision making and
consequences. Teacher's
notes are available.
Themes: Sexual abuse, Sisters, Suicide, Relationships, Emotions,
Family.
Kylie Grant