Confident Coco by Chanh Kien, Phuong Ong and Claire Amore
Illus. by Aleksandra Szmidt. Little Steps Publishing, 2020. ISBN:
9781925839760.
(Ages: 3-6) From her appearance alone Coco oozes confidence; the
front page shows her wearing a cape, with a wide stance, hands on
hips and head held high. The illustrative style uses large heads on
a small body which also adds to her larger than life confidence. But
there's one thing at the park Coco isn't confidence about: the big
slide. Her other friends go down but Coco feels too small, she's
scared that she might fall or go too fast or crash to the ground.
Her friends are wonderfully empathetic in a way that we hope all
children would respond to the fears of others: "Ruby shared, 'I know
how you feel, I was scared too, and the fear is real. But I pushed
through, I told myself I'd be fine . . . What was holding me back
was all in my mind." We hear Coco's thoughts as she works to push
through her fear, emotions that will be identifiable to most young
children. Eventually she takes a deep breath and with a new push of
confidence and encouragement from her friend she decides to give it
a go and trust that everything will be okay. "This is the fear that
I own today. I need to do this in my own way," she says as she sits
down and pushes off from the top of the slide.
This is quite direct in the way it teaches strategies for confidence
and resilience but it is told in a way that is accessible and
meaningful, especially because it uses a context that most young
children will identify with. "With belief in herself and a friend
supporting her through, Coco's got the confidence to tackle anything
new". The modelling of both how to support a friend though fear and
strategies to support yourself through fear is near perfect. The end
of the book also contains discussion questions that will help to
facilitate conversations about these two aspects. Themes:
Confidence, Fear, Rhyming story.
Nicole Nelson