Mother of pearl by Angela Savage
Transit Lounge, 2019. ISBN: 9781925760354.
(Age: 16+) Highly recommended. Themes: Surrogacy, Medical tourism,
In vitro fertilisation, Thailand. Two women's lives become connected
when Meg, an Australian who has suffered many failed IVF attempts,
turns to the option of a commercial surrogacy arrangement in
Thailand, and Mod, a poor Thai woman contemplates the role of
carrying another couple's child; but it is a third woman, Anna,
sister to Meg, that provides the moral heart of the story. Anna has
worked for many years as an aid worker in South-east Asia, she
speaks Thai among other languages, and from experience she has
learnt that there is often a huge gap between how things appear and
how they really are. Wanting to support the sister she loves, but
distrustful of the surrogacy business, and concerned about the
exploitation of Thai women, Anna becomes a kind of go-between,
wanting to ensure that everyone is treated fairly.
It is through Anna that we learn about the complexities of
commercial surrogacy relationships. Despite the high standards
of Thai medical care and expertise, the powerlessness of the
surrogate mother is revealed: the commodification of her body, and
the hazards - medical, financial and emotional - that she faces.
Savage also provides insight into the varied motivation for the
surrogate mother - not only the obvious escape from poverty and
abuse, but the Buddhist idea of attaining merit, doing a good deed
to bring better karma and atonement for past failings, the
opportunity for a spiritual connection that the paying customer too
often may not understand or appreciate.
I thought that the relationship between Anna and her sister were
particularly well drawn - the love and closeness between them, but
also how jealousy and resentment can bubble up at any time, because
of the different choices they have made in their lives.
And of course, there will be many who will empathise with the
anguish of Meg, longing for a child, the hopes and bitter
disappointments of each failed IVF attempt, and the tensions that
brings to her relationships with her husband, her sister, and her
friends who have become parents.
Mother of pearl is an interesting story on many levels,
providing insight into human relationships as well as the complex
issues of assisted reproduction, medical tourism, and poverty and
inequality.
Helen Eddy