I have lost my way by Gayle Forman
Simon and Schuster, 2018. ISBN 9781471173721
(Ages: 14+) Recommended. Themes: Friendship, love, acceptance, loss.
Around the time that Freya loses her voice while recording her debut
album, Harun is making plans to run away from everyone he has ever
loved, and Nathaniel is arriving in New York City with a backpack, a
desperate plan, and nothing left to lose. When a fateful accident
draws these three strangers together, their secrets start to unravel
as they begin to understand that the way out of their own loss might
just lie in helping the others out of theirs.
I have lost my way by Gayle Forman is a book about
friendship, love and finding yourself when you feel like all is
lost. The story is told over one life changing day and is told from
alternating perspectives. One of the main themes in this book is
loss. The three main characters, Freya, Harun and Nathaniel, have
all lost something important to them. Freya has lost her voice
during the recording of her debut album, which she has spent the
last few years of her life working towards. Harun has lost the love
of his life, the only person that truly understood him. Nathaniel
has lost everything and now, he has nothing left to lose.
At the start of the book, not much is known about each of the
characters, but as the story progresses, we learn more about their
lives and what lead them to become who they are today through
flashbacks. I absolutely loved how mysterious they all were and the
fact that they all had different backgrounds, religions and sexual
orientations just made them seem all the more real. The diversity in
this book was amazing and it was represented really well.
A definite downside of this book is that it took me quite a while to
get into. In my opinion, it was difficult to figure out which
character's perspective it was being told from and the fact that it
would jump from third person to first person during the flashbacks
made it slightly confusing and hard to follow at times. It was also
very fast paced and since it was told over a single day, I found it
less believable than if it had been told over the course of a week.
Overall, I have lost my way is a really nice story about
love, loss and acceptance that teenagers everywhere would enjoy,
especially if they feel like they have lost their way too.
Grace Austin (Student)